10 Signs You’re Not In Love
Falling in love is one of the most amazing and magical experiences one can have. That’s why people usually know when they experience it and they can even describe it.
But what about when you are not in love? Well, it might be a bit tricky to tell if you are falling out of love.
So, here we have brought you 10 Signs You’re Not In Love.
1. You don’t crave to hear from them
When you are in love and in a healthy relationship, communication is really important.
It’s one of the things that you really enjoy and look forward to a lovely chit-chat now and then with your partner. You could say it’s the basis of any healthy relationship.
If in your relationship that very thing is absent, which also happens to be the foundation of your relationship, then this could be a sign you’re not in love anymore, and neither they are.
Also Read: 11 Signs You’re In Love
2. You always complain about them to others
People usually vent to other people after their lover’s quarrels, which is totally fine, but if you do this too often, then it could be a sign that something in your relationship isn’t right.
If this is your case, where you are always complaining about your partner and seeking advice from others, this might mean that you’ve fallen out of love.
These things happen because your mind and heart are not in sync. Your mind tells you that this relationship will not work out, but your heart still searches for the love that had blossomed at the beginning of the relationship.
It’s advisable that you rethink your relationship and sort things out.
3. You don’t enjoy being around them anymore
When you are in love, you want to be around your significant other all the time and make them feel special.
If in your relationship you want more space than usual, this should raise a red flag.
If the time you spend with your partner is not enjoyable anymore and you’re missing out on the spark in your relationship, you should take time and reconsider your feelings or this might mean you don’t love him/her anymore.
4. You get irritated with them over small things
If you’re constantly irritated or annoyed by your partner and looking for something to be upset about, this might mean you’re subconsciously looking up for a reason to break up.
Usually, when someone is in love, little things don’t even bother and you sort things out quickly.
But if it’s not the case with you and things usually end up with bad terms for you, then you might not be in love with your partner.
5. You don’t think about them very often
When you are in love with someone, they are usually on your mind all the time and you always think about them throughout the day. You wonder what they might be doing or where might they be, etc. Whenever you think about them it makes you happy and gives you a feeling of warmth. It suddenly brightens your day.
If this is not the case with you and they aren’t usually on your mind and you don’t think about them very often, then this might be a sign you don’t love your special someone.
6. When you think about your future, they aren’t there in it
When you think about your future plans or take future-related decisions, but you don’t take your partner into consideration or it doesn’t matter to you if your partner will be with you or not then it might be, one of the signs you’re not in love with them.
Usually, when someone envisions their future, their partner is right there with them and they can’t see themselves without their partner.
So, if this isn’t the case with you then you’re not head over heels for them and you should rethink your feelings.
7. You don’t care to share your experiences
If you prefer to do things alone or always go out and have fun without your significant other, then this is a sign you are not in love with your partner and don’t care to share different experiences with them.
When someone is actually in love, they do everything together and build beautiful memories by sharing unique experiences with each other.
If this isn’t the case with you, then you might wanna reconsider your feelings and search deeper.
8. You focus more on their flaws than strengths
When you are in love, one of the first things that happen is that you absolutely adore any and every flaw your significant other may have. You don’t see them as flaws; you endear every quirk of them.
So, if you find yourself getting irritated or annoyed by every minor flaw of your partner, then this might be the sign you’ve fallen out of love with them.
9. You keep secrets from them
If you keep secrets from your partner, then it’s an absolute red flag for a relationship to going on. Even if it’s a small secret like you’ve some strange addiction or you don’t like their cooking or anything of that sort, you should tell them.
Otherwise, it only means you’re not being real around them, you can’t trust them and everything becomes messed up in the future.
If you can’t tell your partner your deepest and darkest secret, then it’s a sign you’re not in love.
10. It feels like a forced relationship
When you’re in love, you always feel happy, you always seem to be on Cloud 9 and you’re very optimistic as well. You happily plan for your future with them in it, you laugh and enjoy and time flies for you.
But if in your case, these things don’t happen and you find yourself struggling to keep your relationship going, you can’t feel happiness, you fight a lot with your partner, then you are absolutely not in love, and you should rethink your relationship.